How to Introduce Light Bondage
What is light bondage? It is basically sensation play,
or a gentle form of BDSM Equipment. Do not be afraid of "light bondage" and
"BDSM." It can be intimidating to hear those words, but it doesn’t
have to. It could be difficult and rough, or it can be slow and gentle. You can
still have fun as a beginner by playing with stimulation and surprises.
Cold
You can deliver icy cold excitement to your partner
and have them respond with goose bumps. Another way to bring cold excitement
into the bedroom is to cool off with a personal lubricant.
Hot
Experimenting with hot wax or hot stones is fun. You
should use special-designed massage candles to avoid excessive heat and
burning. Massage candles are made from soy wax and burn at a lower heat than
regular candles. Soy wax is biodegradable, and it's easy to clean up. Warming
lubricant does not heat, but it can still be a different experience when you
experiment with temperature.
Stimulants
Extra sensation is provided by sexual stimulants,
which are great for the clitoris and nipples. Sensation balms are tingling and
ideal for partner participation.
Deprivation
Sensation play can include adding sensations as well
as taking away sensations. This causes the senses to be more acute. This is
known as sensory deprivation. Sensory deprivation is best treated with
blindfolds or handcuffs.
Flogging
Another word that people fear is "impact
play". Flogging and impact playing can be both fun and erotic. Flogging
can be done with either an open hand or a device called a flogger. Different
floggers can deliver different sensations.
·
Super light: silk
or satin
·
Light: Deerskin
or lightweight suede
·
Medium: Elk hide,
moose, or heavier suede
·
Hard: Braided,
buffalo hide bull hide, or rubber
Flogging can have an impact on the length and
thickness of the tassels. How much flogging will sting will depend on where you
are located.
Paddling
A paddle can also be used to deliver erotic spanking.
A majority of people prefer to have a paddle delivered over their knees. The
wollup will become more painful if the paddle is too heavy. Ouch! Leather
paddles are less painful for beginners.
The Prickly
The Wattenberg Wheel was initially designed to test nerve responses. These pinwheels are popular for their sensation over the flesh of their partners. It provides a prickly sensation, but it does not harm or break the skin.
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